Friday, November 14, 2008

New Dr. On Grey's Anatomy Is An Aspie?

I will be very interested in following this particular story arc. I'll be posting my reactions after the 3 episode story arc finishes.

In the meantime: http://ausiellofiles.ew.com/2008/10/mary-mcdonnells.html











An aspie is one who has Asperger's Syndrome, which is believed to be part of the autism spectrum. Aspies, while being quite gifted verbally, have social, emotional, and sensory integration difficulties, among others. Aspie is an affectionate term, and is not meant as a put down

12am - Some quick initial reactions.

My son couldn't be more opposite in personality from the character of Dr. Dixon. Unlike Dr. Dixon...he is very outgoing socially, talkative and friendly. The character of Temperance Brennan on "Bones" could very well be a portrayal of an independent, highly successful adult with Aspergers...but even then, he doesn't quite fit that portrayal either. Goes to show, what how broad the spectrum is...you really can't nail down an exact portrayal of an individual with Aspergers. At best, you can only give an outline - the details of which are filled in by that individual and not by others.

Similarities? While he doesn't cling as rigidly as Dixon's character does to "Rules," he does rely on a clear definition of rules to navigate the course of his day/week/etc. That said...it doesn't stop him from lying, omitting or fudging the facts if he thinks he's about to get busted for something. :-) He certainly has intense interests - "fixate" (but I am attempting to focus on the postive in regards to this).  We also encourage him to explore these interests (medieval history in particular) and are gradually expanding his reading material on the subject, as much as we can find that is geared toward his age level.

New Dr. On Grey's Anatomy Is An Aspie?

I will be very interested in following this particular story arc. I'll be posting my reactions after the 3 episode story arc finishes.

In the meantime: http://ausiellofiles.ew.com/2008/10/mary-mcdonnells.html



An aspie is one who has Asperger's Syndrome, which is believed to be part of the autism spectrum. Aspies, while being quite gifted verbally, have social, emotional, and sensory integration difficulties, among others. Aspie is an affectionate term, and is not meant as a put down


12am - Some quick initial reactions.

My son couldn't be more opposite in personality from the character of Dr. Dixon. Unlike Dr. Dixon...he is very outgoing socially, talkative and friendly. The character of Temperance Brennan on "Bones" could very well be a portrayal of an independent, highly successful adult with Aspergers...but even then, he doesn't quite fit that portrayal either. Goes to show, what how broad the spectrum is...you really can't nail down an exact portrayal of an individual with Aspergers. At best, you can only give an outline - the details of which are filled in by that individual and not by others.

Similarities? While he doesn't cling as rigidly as Dixon's character does to "Rules," he does rely on a clear definition of rules to navigate the course of his day/week/etc. That said...it doesn't stop him from lying, omitting or fudging the facts if he thinks he's about to get busted for something. :-) He certainly has intense interests - I refuse to use the term "fixate." We also encourage him to explore these interests (medieval history in particular) and are gradually expanding his reading material on the subject, as much as we can find that is geared toward his age level.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Backward D Scale For Violin

My son is in his second year of violin. Because of his learning disabilities and Aspergers - he is behind his peers, just as with math and reading. However, as with his regular classwork, its not a matter of him not being able to learn - it's simply a matter of time and adjusting the teaching method to help him achieve the desired result. He is no less intelligent than his peers, but unlike them he has a few more obstacles on his path he must navigate around.

That said, at the age of 37...I seem to have found myself learning how to play the violin along with my son. During high school and college, I played clarinet...so it has been quite awhile since I actively touched any musical instrument. Yet, here I am reacquainting myself with notes, tempo, scale and how they apply to the violin. My oldest daughter, who has taken the violin a year longer than her brother, shows me the correct way to hold the violin. Being a 3/4 size, its a bit small and a tad awkward to hold. I also ask his teacher to double check that I am doing this correctly - she seems very excited and enthusiastic about my method of helping my son practice his violin.

So, during the day...while the kids are in school, I practice my scales from my son's book of beginning violin lessons. I give his current lesson a once over and later in the evening watch while he practices himself. Learning what he is learning helps me to better understand the particulars he has difficulty with. It may be his issues with his grip (which are related to his issues with muscle tone) are hindering his ability in moving fluidly from the A string to the D string. He also hates the way the chin rest must be placed and how his arms must be positioned...so that I am having to remind him not to keep them tucked down near his body. His biggest challenge,however, is maintaining the correct grip on the neck (which is to say very relaxed) and resist the urge to hold the violin by the body.

We stop before it becomes more frustrating than fun, taking some time to relax and come back to it later. He enjoys the violin and I want him to continue to do so. It is of no importance to him, that he is improving his skills in mathematics or strengthening the muscles of his fingers, hands and arms. All my son cares about is showing me how well he can play Hot Cross Buns...after which I look at him and say well done. I'm so proud of you!

Backward D Scale For Violin

My son is in his second year of violin. Because of his learning disabilities and Aspergers - he is behind his peers, just as with math and reading. However, as with his regular classwork, its not a matter of him not being able to learn - it's simply a matter of time and adjusting the teaching method to help him achieve the desired result. He is no less intelligent than his peers, but unlike them he has a few more obstacles on his path he must navigate around.

That said, at the age of 37...I seem to have found myself learning how to play the violin along with my son. During high school and college, I played clarinet...so it has been quite awhile since I actively touched any musical instrument. Yet, here I am reacquainting myself with notes, tempo, scale and how they apply to the violin. My oldest daughter, who has taken the violin a year longer than her brother, shows me the correct way to hold the violin. Being a 3/4 size, its a bit small and a tad awkward to hold. I also ask his teacher to double check that I am doing this correctly - she seems very excited and enthusiastic about my method of helping my son practice his violin.

So, during the day...while the kids are in school, I practice my scales from my son's book of beginning violin lessons. I give his current lesson a once over and later in the evening watch while he practices himself. Learning what he is learning helps me to better understand the particulars he has difficulty with. It may be his issues with his grip (which are related to his issues with muscle tone) are hindering his ability in moving fluidly from the A string to the D string. He also hates the way the chin rest must be placed and how his arms must be positioned...so that I am having to remind him not to keep them tucked down near his body. His biggest challenge,however, is maintaining the correct grip on the neck (which is to say very relaxed) and resist the urge to hold the violin by the body.

We stop before it becomes more frustrating than fun, taking some time to relax and come back to it later. He enjoys the violin and I want him to continue to do so. It is of no importance to him, that he is improving his skills in mathematics or strengthening the muscles of his fingers, hands and arms. All my son cares about is showing me how well he can play Hot Cross Buns...after which I look at him and say well done. I'm so proud of you!

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Autism Myths

A very good site, worth checking out / sharing and bookmarking.

http://autism-myths.org/

Autism Myths

A very good site, worth checking out / sharing and bookmarking.

http://autism-myths.org/